I am feeling very sad that some people seem to feel the need to destroy a good person in order to make themselves feel better about a crappy thing that they did.
I feel sad that things can't be let go of and bridges built.
I feel oh so sad that nasty nasty things can get said and done in the name of 'spirituality' and that justification for some means shooting another down when they haven't got much lower to go and then kicking them in the face to top it all off.
There is a name for this stuff, it is called persecution.
Why continue to fan the flames of a fire that should never have been lit?
For Christs sake, enough is enough, remember the many many good things she did for you and leave the crap where it belongs.
The power lies in love and forgiveness.
This is my last word on this.
Own your own stuff people before it bites you on the arse one day and it will, trust me.