I would just like to clarify that with my last post I was not having a dig at anyone.
I would not do that.
I know how hard and long and painful the journey is.
I have walked that road and continue to do so.
I personally found it confusing and confounding and made it as complicated as possible for myself. I have hope that a word or two of mine may help something for someone 'click' into place somewhere along the way sometime. If not, it keeps me on my toes and makes me remember where I came from anyway.
My style of writing tends to be a bit tongue in cheek and I wont apologise for it.
I am WITH you not against you.