I have a question too
Seems Nat and Lisa have had the same mindwave as me this week
My question is
"Who do you 'present' as to others?
I will give you an example
I know a lady who suffers from many physical complaints
In fact, her whole world revolves around her ailments
She suffers from about 20 different diseases
This woman used to be drug addict and is no one we know in blogland ok
When she got 'well' she got sick
...and each year she gets sicker and sicker
When you meet this woman and ask how she is, as you do, she immediatley launches into a full-on narrative on exactly what she's going through today
You do not ever again ask this woman how she is, because she will tell you, for hours
By using her 'illnesses' she manages to avoid having to do any work on any other part of her 'self'
Every illness this woman has is one of the ones the doctors cannot ever really find a cause for...
Do you see what I mean?
This woman identifies herself as sick and in pain.....
and so she is.
She may as well walk into a room and introduce herself like this
"Hi I'm Sick, nice to meet you"
So, my question, who do you 'present' as to others?
BTW.....I don't expect an answer :0)
Its just food for thought